بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah, in the name of, the Most
Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Personality
Development Program
Contribute
to humanity by develop a God-oriented personality!!! |
تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام
ایک
خدا پرست شخصیت
کی تعمیر کر
کے انسانیت کی
خدمت کیجیے!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں کو بہتر
دیکھنے کے
لئے نسخ اور
نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے
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Suspicion |
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About 1950, I was buying a railway
ticket on the railway station of Azamgarh, ( I felt sympathy for the villager and offered
him to exchange currency notes for his coins. But he refused, looked at me
with suspicion and went away. I briskly moved to the train, although my eyes
were chasing that villager. I guess that he might miss the train.
Why the villager did not accept my
offer? The reason is “suspicion”. He thought that I was trying to get
advantage of his problem and wanted to change my fake currency notes with his
coins. Because of suspicion, he was not willing to change his money and he
paid the cost in the form of losing the train. Our society is almost going through
the same dilemma. We are looking towards each other with some sort of
suspicion. Everyone considers others unreliable. As a result of this
mentality, entire society has developed a temperament of not trusting the
other. Everyone is losing various possible benefits due to this lack of
trust. Human cooperation is a must for many things. Because of suspicion, we
are losing the possibility of getting other’s cooperation. A suspicion results in another
suspicion and trust develops trust. If you tend to look upon others with
suspicion, in turn they will look upon you with the same mentality. The gap
between these two persons will become wider and wider. On the contrary, if
you start dealing with a person with trust, the same feelings will be
developed in his / her mind for you. As a result of that, your relationship
will become stronger and stronger. The “human personality” in the body of
one person is similar to that of other. But a person often indulge in this
misconception that he is different from the other one. (Author: Waheed-ud-Din Khan, Selection
& Translation: Mubashir Nazir, Review: Muhammad Amir Khan)
While trying to develop trust in
others, we should use our logic carefully. If developing a suspicion is one
extreme, having a blind faith is another extreme. Moderate attitude is that
we should neither develop the suspicion nor the blind faith. We should develop
a positive thinking by using our reason in an enlightened manner. The right
attitude for the people we do not know personally is that we should neither
consider them dishonest nor develop blind trust in them and give them our
money. Mubashir Nazir
Think about it! · How we should deal
with an unknown person? How to create a balance between ‘taking care’ and
‘suspicion’? · How to get rid of
suspicion? Provide two remedies. Please send your answers through email
to post your comments on this web page. |
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Unit 1: Relation with God & His Prophets In the name of God, the most Beneficent, the Eternally
Merciful | The
Treasure’s Map | The
Month of Ramadan: What to achieve?
| The Prophet’s Love |
The
Basic Premise of the Religion |
Who
is like You? |
Pure
Monotheism I |
Pure
Monotheism II |
Who deserves the Paradise?
Unit 2:
Elimination of our Negative Personality How to get rid of Poverty? |
The Report of Transparency International
and a Hadith |
Justification
or Admitting One’s Fault |
Artificial
Colors of Glamour |
Religious People & Ostentation |
Character
of Ancient Religious Leaders at Jerusalem |
Attachment
to a Group is irrelevant for Success | Successful Life |
The
Revolution Occurred! |
Form
& Spirit |
Jealousy
& Modern Testing Techniques |
How to overcome
Procrastination? | The
Difference between an Extremist & a Moderate Person Unit 3:
Development of our Positive Personality The Quranic Strategy for Personality Development |
How to get rid of Poverty? |
Character
builds the Nation | The Sermon of Mount |
Success: What is it? |
Success Secrets |
A Positive Attitude affirms the Life |
Road Block |
Thinking after Writing! |
Trust
is Golden |
Getting
off to a good start |
The Lesson of Arnold Schwarzenegger |
Unlocking
the Gates to Success |
Admitting
One’s Fault |
Top 10 Qualities of Excellence
Unit 4:
Relationship with Human Beings Backbiting |
Suspicion |
Defamation |
Examining Others with Suspicion |
Are
you killing your family? Unit 5: Our
Responsibility, Vision & Mission The Love of Prophet Muhammad with Knowledge
| Traditional Mentality
| Strange Similarities between Christian
& Muslim Histories | The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part I)
| The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part II)
| The Problem of Aurengzeb Alamgir |
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