بِسمِ
اللهِ
الرَّحْمَنِ
الرَّحِيمِ Allah, in the name of, the Most
Affectionate, the Eternally Merciful |
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Personality
Development Program
Contribute
to humanity by develop a God-oriented personality!!! |
تعمیر
شخصیت
پروگرام
ایک
خدا پرست شخصیت
کی تعمیر کر
کے انسانیت کی
خدمت کیجیے!!! |
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اردو
اور عربی تحریروں کو بہتر
دیکھنے کے
لئے نسخ اور
نستعلیق
فانٹ یہاں سے
ڈاؤن لوڈ کیجیے
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Positive
Thinkers |
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It was a beautiful valley full of flowers surrounded by
mountains. There was a tiny village at the base of a big mountain. The
village looked like a tiny speck on the splendid canvas of natural landscape.
Mighty snow-capped peaks ad encircled the village like a fort. High atop the mountain, there was a monastery where a
sage used to live. Due to his wisdom, people were attracted towards him like
moths to a flame. A lot of people used to travel over the snake-like hilly
tracks to visit this monastery and learn wisdom from the sage. It was a moderately-cool September night. The sage was
sitting in a veranda of the monastery and his pupils were sitting around him.
Fresh air of their breath-taking surroundings was flowing through their lungs.
The voice of the sage was revitalizing the energy of their spirits. A glass
of water was lying in front of the sage. "Look! My sons! What do you think about this glass?"
The sage asked. "The glass is half-empty." A young boy
replied. "No, the glass is half-full." Another pupil
added. "Both of you are true. Your answers just represent
the difference in way of your way of thinking. Every situation has two
aspects: One is dark and negative; while the other is bright and positive. A
mind that sets in its ways to look at the darker side of a situation always
remains frustrated. On the contrary, you will find those happy and energetic
who look at the brighter side and keep their chins up." The sage used to encourage his disciples to raise
questions. Nothing was regarded taboo in his wisdom sessions. Everyone was
free to raise any issue or even criticize the profound ideas of the sage. A
pupil stood up and said: "Sir! Is this not contrary to what you taught us
earlier? You told us in the previous lessons that we should be realistic. We
should always have our head screwed on. If I look at the bright side and
ignore the dark side, shall I not be doing something against your earlier
lesson?" The sage smiled and said: "Yes, I taught you to be
realistic. Now I am telling you to be realistically positive. The person who
ignores the half-full glass and focuses on the half-empty glass is also not
realistic. He is excessively riveting on the dark side. The correct approach is that we should be realistic
enough to accept the reality that the glass is half-empty but we should also
thank God that it is half-full. This thankfulness to God will unleash the
hidden treasure trove of potential He has stored deep within our personality.
This will do us a good turn to fill the half-empty side. We cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought – not
even one. We should not allow a single negative thought to enter into the
fortress of our mind. The people, who think about the same things every day, most
of them negative, have fallen into bad mental habits. Instead of focusing on
all the good in their lives and thinking of ways to make things even better, they
are captives of their past. Some of them fret over political conditions. Others
worry about their financial problems. Still others brood over more trifling
matters like sarcastic remarks of a friend or the comment of a co-worker that
smacked of ill-will. Those who run their minds in this fashion are allowing
worry to rob them of their life force. They are blocking the enormous
potential of their minds to work magic and deliver into their lives all that
they want, emotionally, physically, politically, economically and, yes, even
spiritually. These people never realize that mind management is the
essence of life management. This is the tyranny of impoverished thinking." When we look at the current position of Thanks to God, we have the half-full glass. We have
hidden treasure of ample potential. Although, we have many people who are
spreading negative thinking but there are people who are exploring all
avenues to create positive thinking in us. Positive Thinkers Club is a group of people who are
going to great lengths on this theme. Instead of fretting over the problems
of The address of their website is http://www.positivethinkersclub.net
. (Author: Muhammad Mubashir Nazir)
Think about it! ·
Identify three situations in which you involved yourself
into negative thinking. What was the impact of negative thinking on your
life? ·
How can we develop positive thinking in us? Send your comments and questions by email to publish them on this webpage. |
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Unit 1: Relation with God & His Prophets In the name of God, the most Beneficent, the
Eternally Merciful | The
Treasure’s Map | The
Month of Ramadan: What to achieve?
| The Prophet’s Love |
The
Basic Premise of the Religion |
Who
is like You? |
Pure
Monotheism I |
Pure
Monotheism II |
Who deserves the Paradise?
Unit 2:
Elimination of our Negative Personality How to get rid of Poverty? |
The Report of Transparency International
and a Hadith |
Justification
or Admitting One’s Fault |
Artificial
Colors of Glamour |
Religious People & Ostentation |
Character
of Ancient Religious Leaders at Jerusalem |
Attachment
to a Group is irrelevant for Success |
Successful
Life | The Revolution Occurred! |
Form
& Spirit |
Jealousy
& Modern Testing Techniques |
How to overcome
Procrastination? | The
Difference between an Extremist & a Moderate Person Unit 3:
Development of our Positive Personality The Quranic Strategy for Personality Development |
How to get rid of Poverty? |
Character
builds the Nation |
The
Sermon of Mount |
Success: What is it? |
Success Secrets |
A Positive Attitude affirms the Life |
Road Block |
Thinking after Writing! |
Trust
is Golden |
Getting
off to a good start |
The Lesson of Arnold Schwarzenegger |
Unlocking
the Gates to Success |
Admitting
One’s Fault |
Top 10 Qualities of Excellence
Unit 4:
Relationship with Human Beings Backbiting |
Suspicion |
Defamation |
Examining Others with Suspicion |
Are
you killing your family? Unit 5: Our
Responsibility, Vision & Mission The Love of Prophet Muhammad with Knowledge
| Traditional Mentality
| Strange Similarities between Christian
& Muslim Histories | The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part I)
| The Relationship of Revelation & Intellect (Part II)
| The Problem of Aurengzeb Alamgir |
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